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Just recently, I was trespassed from someone’s house for doing absolutely nothing. Let me explain how this happened…

So about a week ago, a former friend of ours went to Disney World as part of a vacation. At the same time, my wife and I were having a reception that we didn’t have from our wedding back in August because we wanted to have the wedding down in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. Now my wife has always said that she wanted to have her wedding down in Gatlinburg ever since she knew what Gatlinburg was, which was fine with everybody and we were OK with so I’m not showing up because of being so far.


So our former best friends went down to Gatlinburg with us, but they didn’t leave at the same time as us; they left right before the wedding. They told me the reason why they didn’t come down there until the day before is because they didn’t want other kids out of school anymore than they had to– and I get it. You don’t want to do that. So fast forward to September 19, the day before they were going to leave for Disney World.



My wife and I went over to their house on September 19 of this year, which is 2025, and they allowed us to use their projector because my wife and I wanted to show our baby pictures at the wedding reception.


A few weeks before the reception or before they even left for vacation (Disney), they told Amber that they would purchase a
souvenir for Amber since we couldn’t get it. While they were on vacation, Amber said something about the souvenir she wanted. This “friend” of ours was very rude because she wouldn’t fulfill her promise to Amber like she said. I sent a text message to this “friend” and said, “Amber is pitching a fit over a popcorn bucket.” This person overreacts and gets really pissy with us.

Then Amber asked her if she knew anything about a package or piece of mail from Amazon. I think the first time Amber said anything about it, she never answered or completely avoided the question. Suspicious, right? Yeah, I know. Therefore, Amber asked again later on, and we said we were going to check the doorbell. Well, this person says, “Please stop asking me that” Like, do you know how suspicious you sound?

So when I got home, I messaged this “friend” and said, “Are we not allowed to ask any questions?” and then that’s when all this started again.

Right after this, she decided to tell us that she is done with Amber and me. She blocks us both on all social media.


Since we were trespassing from their house, I got in contact with the family of theirs and asked what to do with their projector I still had. The family member of theirs said, “She is just upset because she spent all her money down there. She does her mom the same way. Everybody needs to get along and talk things over like adults.” And it’s true, but you see, this person doesn’t have the capability to do that. She acts like we are still in high school over something silly.


But wait…. It gets better….


After this phone call with a member of the family of theirs, I get a text message from them that basically threatened me with a restraining order and calling the police. Mind you, Amber and I DID NOTHING. So I told these people, “Well, since I still have your projector, I guess I will have to get the police involved to get it to you because you don’t want me at your house.” Next thing I know, I have an officer meet me over at a public school that is about 60 seconds from where they live, and the cop told me that I was no longer welcome at their house.


That same day, I was getting phone calls and text messages of why I was bad-mouthing other people… which told me that this person was texting everybody trying to defame us. I told my wife, Amber, that she’s going to try to get a restraining order against us but then try to defame us. I told Amber that if this keeps up, I will get a hold of a lawyer for a potential lawsuit.

Yesterday, we arrived in the Pigeon Forge area of Tennessee. We left Indiana at like 3:30 in the morning. It is only a 4 hour drive to Gatlinburg, but supposedly there was major construction happening in the Lexington area of just south of there on I-75. We drove through Nashville and crossed over that way. Once we arrived in the area, it was 10:30 in the morning. Of course we couldn't check into the hotel until like 3 or 4 pm. We had to find a way to kill time, so we drove into the North Carolina side of the Smoky Mountains. You have to go the longer way around because Hurricane Helene destroyed a bunch of land. Then after that, the road that goes into North Carolina from the Gatlinburg area without having to use I-40 was swallowed in because of the excessive rain. So, we had to drive all the way around the other side, we finally got to the Cumberland Gap. All together, I was sitting in the car for like 10 hours or more. I tell you what, talk about being tired.


We drove through Nashville to the other side of the state. I did this to avoid traffic and still had to sit in traffic for a little bit because of an accident. This is not to mention the fact that I needed food and had to find a bathroom. Once we got around the accident (I took a detour), we drove through pouring down rain, ponding water... its a wonder we didn't wreck. Honestly, I think the Lord was watching over us and kept us both safe.

Brooks Houck was just found guilty of murder and tampering with physical evidence. What do you think about that?

If there is one thing I can't stand, it is people who do not have common sense. Usually its people who drive like an idiot, but "stupid people" goes further than that - there are people who ask dumb questions, people who do something stupid and keep up with it (even when you call them out on it).

Back in May of 2024, Amber and I got engaged. How did I do it? Good question! For months prior to the proposal, I was trying to figure out the special way of doing it. I pondered about doing it at a Indianapolis Colts game, but the lady I spoke to told me that they pick out the ring and when you do it. I then realized doing it when its their terms would not work because I wasn't sure if I could get PTO for work the day of that... not to mention having to possibly stay the night in Central Indiana; so, that was out of the question. I then wanted to do it at a concert to an artist we both love. But, I just had this feeling that it was going to cost a fortune. Plus, I wasn't sure if or how I could get in touch with the artist's manager. After deciding not to do either one of those things because it was not feasible, I realized that we were about ready to go on a 4 day trip to Wisconsin to see Amber's dad's side of the family. This is when all of the phone calls started. First person I said something to was her mother (if you don't know, her father passed away almost a year before this). I told her "Since her dad is gone and I can't ask him this, I'm asking you. Are you still on board with me proposing to Amber and getting married to her?" She of course responds, "You have my blessing. Now you need to get her brother's approval?" I responded back with, "I shouldn't have to get his approval because you did not use him to get pregnant with Amber." And she goes (while laughing), "No, because that would be wrong."





I told her mom that I thought about doing it up in Wisconsin. She was all for it. After that, made phone calls to Wisconsin to Amber's family. Amber is close to at least two of her cousins. I told her cousin that Amber chose as her maid of honor that I was going to propose up there and I needed a place to do it, she gave me some suggestions. I also wanted her other cousin that is the same age as Amber and myself to be able to see it. I gave my phone that was recording the video to her same-age cousin.





Of course when you propose to someone that you wanna spend the rest of your life with, the woman is going to cry. At first, Amber said she had no idea what was going on. She thought I was about to push her in the water behind us. No, I didn't do that. The night before the proposal, I drove back to the hotel we were staying in to have Amber's cousin that is a little older than us hold onto the ring. Of course Amber's cousin is fun to be around. I say that because you never know what this woman is going to say or do next. I'll never forget being at Cheddar's back at home in our home state. We went out to dinner with them. Amber's cousin, who like I said you never know what is going to come out of her mouth or what she might do next says somewhat loudly "I gotta poop, there is a turtle poking out." Someone with us asked her what said, but her mom was like "Oh gosh, please don't say it again." We are all sitting there laughing our a--es off.





But back to what I was talking about -- We were in Wisconsin for a few days. Amber, her mom, her brother (she has two: one lives up the road from their mother; the other one lives across the country) and I stayed in the same hotel. Amber's brother and her mom got a room with two beds; Amber and I had a separate room. It was Thursday, May 16, 2024. Obviously Amber knew nothing about my plan; everyone else knew exactly what was going to happen. I was secretly messaging Amber's cousin (the one who does NOT have a filter). We all went back to the hotel. I forgot what it was that someone told Amber that we were doing. I gave Amber's cousin the ring that I hid in my suitcase and it had been sitting in a secret spot of the suitcase since we left Indiana.





When the time came, we were going to the proposal in Port Washington beach, but since the other cousin was in Pewaukee, I did it there. Once again, Amber has no idea whats getting ready to happen. When her cousin brings me the ring, Amber about drops to the ground. Of course she says yes to me. After that, the wedding planning started.



And now, we are exactly 1 MONTH AWAY from being Mr. and Mrs. Robert Henderson.